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The Art of Seducing a Man - Make Him Find You Totally Irresistible

There's but one phrase you can say to a man that will have him thinking about you for days...one way to get his attention without using your body.
Women who understand men know that he can keep coming back without giving you a commitment IF you are always available for a booty call. But IF you get inside his mind, he will keep coming back to you until he commits to you for good.
If you agree with a man's inner resistance, it will throw him off. The more you push away from his desire to resist, the more attractive he'll find you.
For example...if you've been chatting up a man for a while and he seems to have interest in you. Throw in this sentence. Make sure the timing is right...when the conversation is flowing really well. First smile as if you know something then say to him playfully:
"I don't think you're ready for this."
Don't wait to get his feedback. Just say it and drop it. Change the subject and act as if you never even said it.
He'll have a hard time forgetting it.
It will be the opposite of how women usually relate to him. Most women hint in one way or another that they want something from a guy. When you use the attraction he has for you to agree with his inner resistance to not wanting to feel pressure, it will automatically take the pressure off and believe it or not, he'll internally want to disagree with you and move towards you.



Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments



Attract and Date Beautiful Women - Stop Chasing Women and Make Them Chase You!

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What if you could attract whomever you desired? With the right tactics women will come to you, and you will no longer need to chase them. Women can't help being attracted to a certain type of guy by the way they present themselves. If you can figure out what makes the girl tick, you can use that knowledge to your advantage. Sound interesting? It is! Every man should learn this.

The great thing about seducing women is they are controlled by there emotions. The conscious part of their brain might be telling them the guy is a jerk, but there emotional side or subconscious mind is where there attraction lies and they cannot deny it. Which is why they are often attracted to bad boys, because they seem exciting. This does not mean you have to be a so called bad boy. You just need to understand what excites women.

There is a common misconception among men that you have to be good looking or have a lot of money to attract beautiful women and that is simply not the case. Money and looks play a small role in attracting women. Your character and how you present yourself is much more important.

There is some absolutely great information out there on how to attract any woman. They are much cheaper than attraction seminars and often offer a money back guarantee. I've seen many different attraction guides out there and none of them are as complete and fool proof as the one I indicate below...happy hunting!




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments



What to Do After You Finally Get Her Phone Number

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So, you saw a girl that you thought was hot at a bar, you got up the nerve to talk to her and then, believe it or not, you got her number before the night was over. So, what do you do with this little gem of paper? How soon is too soon to call? How late is too late?

The rules on this have changed over the years. It used to be where the standard protocol was to wait 2-3 days before calling a woman after she gave you her number. Not any more. These days, with technology giving us instant everything, if you wait three days most women are going to think you've moved on and so will they.

Generally you should call her within a day of getting her number. After all, by giving you her number she has shown that she is obviously interested, so call her and let her know you're interested too and would like to see her again.

Make sure you have come up with a few ideas of where you could go on a date or where you could meet up to spend some time together before you pick up the phone.

It is important to keep yourself under control in the first call. This call should be short, sweet and to the point of just letting her know you wanted to touch base and possibly set up a time to get together. You don't want to lay your life out for her over the phone, you want to just give her a little attention and leave her wanting more.

Just as a note, in this day of text messaging, it is not unheard of to send a text the same day you get her number saying 'it was great to meet you' or something to that end to let her know you will be calling.
Getting her phone number can be difficult, but the hardest part is keeping the girl interested




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Know If a Girl Likes You - 5 Sure Shot Signs to Figure Out Whether a Girl Likes You Or Not

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If you are totally infatuated with a girl but are not sure if she too likes you then do not lose your confidence. Read these 5 signs on how to know if a girl likes you and make your move if the signs indicate a yes....

Sign 1 - She does her cat scan over you. You might notice that she looks at you at regular intervals and scans you from top to bottom to top again. So, dress well and do not slouch.

Sign 2 - She smiles at you. If she likes what she scans then chances are that she will give you a shy smile or even a bold one if she too is besotted by you. If she is shy, she might look away when you look at her but if she is bold then she might just mouth out a "meow".

Sign 3 - She finds an excuse to talk to you. She might catch hold of a friend and ask to be introduced to you. Once introduced, she will certainly try to keep the conversation going while trying to gather more information about you.

Sign 4 - She gives her phone number. She might use an excuse to give her phone number to you or if she is bold enough, might directly give it to you without any hesitation. In other words, she expects you to call her up.

Sign 5 - She has singled you out. If there are other fish around you and the girl has only given attention and her number to you then she certainly likes only you. You may now break into a mental jig and plan out your first date.

These 5 signs will indicate that the girl that you like is also into you and she will indicate visually, verbally and with her body language that she is ready to be courted by you.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Ask a Girl Out & Never Get Rejected - Make Her Curious and Excited About You Almost Instantly

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Most men are afraid to ask a girl out for the first time for fear of rejection. You can take the courage to ask a girl out only if you have known one another for some time....

Developing a friendship-

It is important to first know the girl, her likes and dislikes. She should also know you enough and to like and feel comfortable with you. She would need assurance that you are good company and will not be boring or let her down in any way. Even though a girl may enjoy talking with you and may like the frivolous and flirtatious interaction with you, but she may not still wish to go out with you on a date. So make sure you do not push the idea of taking her out all too soon after you have met her.

Interact with her more amicably-

You should be able to gauge within a short span that she is comfortable in your company and in fact enjoys being with you. If you both work or go to the same school and you find yourselves frequently enjoying coffee at the cafeteria, then be confident that she will accept to go out with you. You need not fear rejection when you ask her out on a date. Do not of course keep plans of the date hidden from her. If it is a movie you are planning then ask for her preference as well.

Ask her out graciously-

When you plan on asking a girl out on a date, do it with care. Respect her sentiments when asking her. Do not ask her in public or in the presence of others. And ask her well in advance too. Every girl is excited about her first date. She needs time to plan her dress and accessories. She may need to make other arrangements too to get away for the date. So ensure you ask her well in advance. Make proper arrangements as to what time you will pick her up or meet her. Tell her where exactly you plan to go.

A word of advice! Never be late for your date because that is the last impression you'd like to give her.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Get a Girl's Attention

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I think every guy at some point in time has wished he knew the right things to do in order to get a girl's attention. I mean, some guys will do the craziest and stupidest things just to try and get the attention of a particular girl. Some even go to extreme lengths and do the things that should never be done.

How can you get her attention the right way?

Well, for one, you have to really think about what gets anyone to pay attention to another person. A certain amount of curiosity, of wanting to get to know about someone usually does the trick for most people. So, you need to have a level of mystery about you. A little bit of cool goes a long way here.

Another thing, though, is that you want to make sure you are going for positive attention. I mean, anyone will take a look at the drunk fool streaking across a lawn, but no one really wants to get to know that person better. So, you want to keep in mind that making a fool out of yourself is not what you are going for.

Attraction is a funny thing. Once you get it, you wonder why you didn't before. And when you don't get it, you wonder if you ever will.

Be positive about the situation and add a little bit of cool and a little bit of mystery to yourself when you are trying to get her attention. Make yourself stand out, but don't be the guy that streaks across the lawn!




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

3 Sure Shot Signs That a Girl Likes You - Here is Something Which Will Tell You What's on Her Mind

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Even as you try all the tricks in your book to impress the girl of your dreams, you might be too busy to notice the signals that are thrown back at you. You will need to read those signals correctly if you want to know the effect of your moves. Check on these 3 signs that will indicate if a girl likes you...

Sign # 1 - Mane tossing and eye catching. This exercise is followed by almost all girls once they get captivated by a guy. Your chosen girl too might start twirling her hair or tossing it from side to side as you talk with her. She will also steal shy glances towards you if she is shy or directly stare at your body and your eyes if she is bold enough.

Sign # 2 - She laughs at your jokes even as others commit hara-kiri. If she finds all your jokes funny even as other around her might be considering suicide or worse, murdering you, then she is definitely into you. However, this is a sure sign that she likes you since that means that she cares for you and has genuinely found you funny or is laughing just so that you do not feel hurt. Either way, it's a win-win situation.

Sign # 3 - She leans towards you. Even when you are speaking in 3D surround sound, she might pretend that you are speaking softly and lean towards you with her ear on one side, in a bid to hear you better. If she places her hand on your arm while doing it then you are clearly out of the singles club. On the other hand, if she leans away from you then its time to abandon all your strategies and forget about the girl.

These 3 signs will give you the answer that you might have been anticipating and you can now take your newly formed relationship to the next level with ease.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Make Any Girl Like You - You Will Have Girls Literally Addicted to You After This Point

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If your palms get sweaty and your heart beats faster around girls then relax. This happens to every guy and the only difference is that some guys manage to hide their nervousness very well. Instead of sweating it out in a corner just use these 3 tips on how to make a girl like you....

Tip No.1 - God helps those who help themselves. This age-old saying is true even in today's times. If you are not wowed by what you see in the mirror then you can hardly expect a girl to get impressed by you. Your first impression should open the doors of girlie adulation. Dress smartly and remember to shave and shampoo before stepping out. Also spray on a macho-smelling cologne, after-shave or deodorant and accessorize as per your clothes. Girls notice everything in detail so spend a little extra time on your appearance.

Tip No.2 - Break the ice with your words and looks. Talk clearly and use a little humor while introducing yourself to any girl. Even if you have your eyes on a particular girl, make sure that you impress the entire group including her friends. If you find girls laughing at your jokes then carry on but stay in control and remember to crack a few more during the next meeting. A confident approach with eye control will go a long way in wooing any girl of your choice.

Tip No.3 - Listen. In addition to glibly speaking your way into any girl's heart, try to listen to what the girl is saying to you. A little attention while listening will allow you to know the girl's likes and dislikes. This will help you to concentrate on pleasing her by doing what she likes like taking her to her favorite restaurant, movies, etc. Girls dig sensitive guys that are ready to listen to them.

These 3 tips are sure to be noticed by any girl and attract her towards you. Take extra care to groom your body and sharpen your mind and you can expect any girl to like you in a very short time.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Get a Guy to Like You - The Fastest Possible Way to Get Noticed

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If you are like most girls, then you have thousands of tricks to help make a guy fall in love with you. The most important part of love is that you have a chemistry between you because without chemistry the relationship is doomed. Every girl wants a guy that is absolutely crazy about her and if you want to learn how to get a guy to like you, then you need to know how to build up your personal magnetism.

LOVE CAN BE MADE - IT IS UP TO YOU!!

There are many different tricks that can be used to attract a guy and make him fall in love with you. You have to start by understanding that you need to have the self confidence to know that you can attract anybody you want. Learn to trust yourself and know that what you are doing is right.

1. Start by listening to him. Even if you do not agree with what he is saying make sure to listen to his point of view. This shows that you find him to be important and that it is not just about you.

2. You need to be different from other women and make sure to concentrate on him. However if it is all about him you have to be careful because you might end up with someone that does not care about you.

3. Regardless of what you are, who you are, what you look like, or what you think you are, just be yourself. You will never have a successful relationship unless you give him a chance to fall in love with you. Don't be fake because he will see right through it.

4. Make him smile. Have a sense of humor and making hims smile will win him over pretty fast. You don't want everything to be serious and you will want to flirt with him so he can develop feelings for you.

5. Build up your personal magnetism by making yourself as beautiful as you possibly can. This is an easy way to help attract him to you.

6. Try to have a good attitude and stay motivated and cheerful. Happiness is contagious and everybody wants to be around it.

You should also stay away from games. Do not try to be both the lover and the friend because this is just confusing for a guy. Also, make sure you are not after a guy no matter what the cost is and avoid trying to get a guy that is already involved with someone else.

Now that you know how to get the guy of your dreams you need to make sure it happens naturally. Use your femininity to win him over and remember that woman means devoute love.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

6 Tips to Make Him Want You More Than Life Itself!

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Many women go into a relationship with all the intentions of keeping things going great day after day. But somewhere along the way, it all starts to fall apart then we end up losing that person and wondering where we went wrong.

The key to keeping men is to make them want you. You need to give them a reason to want you more than life itself.

Not sure how to do it? Here are some tips:

Be Strong and Independent

Most men love strong and independent women, even though they won't say so. While they want a woman who will love them and be there for them when they need it, they also don't want someone who is needy and will always be whining to them.

Enjoy life

Most men love a woman who can enjoy life no matter what's happening and will want to be with that type of positive spirit.

Let Him Be A Man

Many women think they have to take control of relationships and all relationship situations to make it go well. For many men, this is counter to who they are. Give him a chance to be the gentleman, pick the place you're going, pick up the tab, open bottles or do harder things for you and make sure to appreciate that he was able to help you.

Support Him

We all have tough times in life, it even happens to those strong men we know. Make sure you are able to be there when he needs you.

Don't Be Clingy

Many women think the way to keep a man is to fall down at his feet and give him anything he wants. Most men will enjoy that for a while, but they will tire of it eventually, think less of you for it and end up dumping you when something more interesting comes along. At the same time you will probably end up hating yourself.

Don't Get Lazy

Keep yourself looking good. When he sees other men looking at you he will be more intent on keeping you for himself.
Making a man fall in love with you is a complicated matter. However, in this day and time, you can find some incredible resources online to help you in your quest




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

5 Tips to Keep Your Girl Hooked on You Forever

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So you have a girl on the line that you really like, and you want her to like you back. Really, you don't want her to like you. You want her to be completely hooked on you for good. Well here are some things you need to do to reel her in and be able to keep her for the long term.

Don't Be Obsessive Or Easy to Have

Girls like attention, not stalkers. Don't come off as too desperate for her attention or you will just be creepy. You can show interest, but don't go overboard.

Make Her Feel Cared For

Letting a woman know you care is vital. If she knows you care, she will want to keep it that way and keep you caring more and more for her. A woman's instinct is to find a man who will care for her and take care of her so she can begin a life with him.

Do Special Things For Her

We're not just talking birthdays and anniversaries here. You should do special things for her from time to time, just because. Once you are in a relationship many men stop doing those little things they did while dating. Don't be one of those guys. These extra little touches are what she is going to know sets you above the other guys out there, and therefore hold on to you.

Support Her

As time goes on, there will be tough moments in her life when she will need you to be a friend and support. Make sure you are there for her. While you may not always understand why she needs the support, if you aren't there for her, she will find someone else who is. If you are there, she will know and appreciate it.

Take Care of Yourself

A lot of men get lazy once they think they have hooked a girl. Keep yourself looking good (like you did when you were on the market). This not only reminds her of how lucky she is, but other girls will see you are still looking good, which will make her hold all the tighter to you to keep them away.
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Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

What Women Don't Want in a Guy!

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If you asked me what women want, this article would never end (ha ha, just kidding ladies). So I'm going to tell you some of the things they don't want. Meeting and getting to know women can be a tricky thing for men. Knowing what they're not looking for can keep you ahead of the game. Women want a masculine man, not to be confused with a cocky jerk. In this article I will try to shed some light on this confusing subject.

Why do some guys seem to have all the luck and others struggle to gain an inch. It's all about your approach and knowing what women want (or don't want). Women need to sense a man with some sort of passion. Passions are a great thing to talk about. Think about it, how confident do you feel when you're talking about something you truly care about. Women can sense that energy and feed off of it. Try it next time your with a female. I bet it goes over much better than any of the small talk you are used to.

Many men try the nice guy approach with women. This personality is adopted when you hope to prove how good you could be for a woman. This is not what women want. Other guys try the opposite end of the spectrum (being a jerk). This is not what women want either. Women want to see you shine forth your best qualities. Establish in a womans mind that you're dominant, powerful, and secure in your values and she will respect that. You will come of as genuine and not fake.

Women want a man with a strong character and passion! There is some great information out there on attracting the perfect mate. These are a few pointers that should help you get started. Be that man you envy with all the hot women by knowing what they don't want.




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

What to Do When the Woman Ignores You - And How You Can "Force" Her to Like You Back

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Attention men - have you ever been in a situation where the woman that you like just does not respond to whatever you do? Yes, she might still talk to you, but you can tell that she really is not that into you at all. You know that if you do not pull off something special she will totally forget about you immediately after you left her. But take heart - there are some techniques and tactics which you can use to immediately make her like you. Read on to discover what these tactics are, and achieve mind blowing results quickly...

Two Tactics To "Force" A Woman Who Ignores You Like You Back

Technique #1: "The Green-Eyed Brat". Jealousy is the strongest seduction weapon if there ever is one. Inciting jealousy in a girl will often give you all the power you need to literally force her to like you. When in a group, ask her to introduce you to her friends, and then talk more to her friends than her. This will make you come across as non-needy, and may even compel her to chase you. Try it.

Technique #2: "Fractionation". Look - if you cannot make a woman like you whatever you do, then why not just hypnotize her? Master seducers have been known to use this hypnosis technique called 'fractionation' - where a woman is made to go through an emotional rollercoaster and in the process make her emotionally dependent on them. This is done by making the woman go through both happy and sad states, and immediately 'associating' (or 'anchoring' in NLP terminology) the happy states with the man.

Fractionation is known to be able to make a woman fall in love in as little as 15 minutes. Highly controversial, but very effective.
Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial,

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous

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Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

7 Questions to Ask a Girl on a First Date

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You've made it this far. You have asked a girl out, she's agreed and now it's time to head out on that first date. If you want to avoid the uncomfortable awkwardness of a lull in the conversation, it's important to have a few questions up your sleeve to bring up and keep the conversation rolling along. Not just any questions will do. Here are some good ones to ask.

Does she have any brothers or sisters? - This is a safe question. Most people at least somewhat get along with their siblings. While you may think asking about her parents is a good idea, you don't know if one has passed away or there is an ugly divorce underway that could put a black cloud over the rest of the date.
Does she have any hobbies? This can not only give you a little insight into who she is, but will also let you know if there are hobbies you can enjoy together.
What is her school or career situation? School and work are always pretty safe topics to discuss, and can also let you know what type of a person she is (by what she is studying or what type of work she does).
What are her career, school and life goals? This gives you an even better look at who she is and who she wants to become. You may also be able to get an idea if this is the kind of person you want to be around.
What are her favorite music styles or books? This lets you know if you have any of these things in common. If you do, you may be able to continue the conversation about your favorite book or group.
What are her favorite movies or TV Shows? This offers more of the same insight from above as well as some other conversation topics.
Does she have any sports interests? If so, maybe you have some in common and can have a next date at a game or playing one of the sports you like.


Conversation is key in this first date if you want to keep it comfortable and get another. Be prepared. In addition to these seven questions to ask a girl on a first date there are plenty of other resources out there where you can read up before you jump in.
Asking these questions will certainly help your first date to be a successful one. However, there is much more to making a girl REALLY fall for you




Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

How to Make a Guy Want You - The Surefire Secrets to Making Him Want You

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Are you after a specific guy, but you just cannot figure out how to make a guy want you? There are many different secrets that can help you get the man of your dreams and to be honest you will probably need to be willing to spend a little bit of money to gain the necessary knowledge to ensure that you get the guy of your dreams and fall in love forever. However, here are a few tips to help you out right how.
First, if you want to make a guy want you it is important that he notice you. If he never sees you, then it will be difficult to win him over. Start by making yourself look and feel as good as you possibly can. This will make you more noticeable to him and your confidence will make you shine as well.
Second, you need to separate yourself from everybody else in your group. Guys do not want to approach a girl that is with her friends. There are too many things to consider and if you were to reject him it would have happened in front of an entire group of people. Find a way to move closer to him and give him the opportunity to approach you without all your friends around. This will give you better odds of getting him to approach you.
Third, once he is talking to you it is very important that you treat it as just a casual conversation. Don't be thinking this is it he is mine and he is going to be my boyfriend by tomorrow. This pressure is something that can be sensed and chances are you will scare him away. Live in the moment with him and just have a flirty and fun conversation to start.
Last, have a plan. This is something that will increase your odds more than anything else. You need to have a step by step plan to help you learn how to make a guy want you and this is necessary to get the guy of your dreams to fall for you. Without a plan you are leaving way too many things up to chance and that does not favor you as well as a plan does.



Saturday, March 21, 2009 | 0 Comments

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